Problems of Reckless Dating and their Solutions

Dating is the way of finding companionship and meaningful relationships but there are also some problems that stem from careless dating. We cannot be too careful in the matters of the heart. It has its own ways of convincing us for feeling drawn towards the wrong person. This can lead to heart breaks, misunderstanding or make us the victim of a traumatic relationship. Avoiding the dating dangers altogether may not be possible but with a little bit of caution and tact you can protect yourself from most of them. Relish the pleasures of dating and connect with new people but don’t forget that it’s better to be safe than sorry.

Unwanted Pregnancy and Sexually Transmitted Diseases

Some Dating Dangers you should be Aware of:

  1. Charmed to be fooled: Though you date many people, you don’t always feel the connection. People want to find a mate to whom they will be physically attracted and at the same time have a mental connection of some sort. But there are many dangerous people, stalking the dating world, who prey on your vulnerabilities and attract you with their wit and charm, only to make a fool of you. Online dating has increased the chances of betrayal as in most cases you have no idea if the person you are chatting with is lying about his or her identity. Before getting too involved you should make sure the man or woman you are dating has not lied to you about themselves.
  2. Unwanted Pregnancy and Sexually Transmitted Diseases: Unprotected sex and physical intimacy can lead to dangerous consequences. Unwanted pregnancy can be a very shocking and life-changing experience for you. The STDs can also leave you baffled and shattered. It doesn’t matter who you are dating, if you are not conscious enough and indulge in reckless sex then you will have to endure the consequences. Some of the common sexually transmitted diseases are- Chlamydia, genital Herpes, human papilloma, gonorrhea etc. Use condoms during physical intimacy to avoid such complications.

The pain of heart-break, break-ups

  1. The pain of heart-break/ break-ups: Finding someone you really like and dating them for a while only to lose them afterwards can be really painful. Heartbreaks and breakups are very common though they affect us each time as severely as the first time. You cannot avoid falling in love with someone or trusting them but you can hold yourself together and be brave. It is always better to accept that the person you love do not care for you in the same way. It helps us in moving on with our lives.
  2. Abusive Dating: Do not let yourself be a victim of abusive dating as it will break you from within. There are a lot of ways in which you can be abused by your partner. Sexual abuse is when you are forced to have sex by your date though you don’t want it. Verbal abuse is the use of dirty language, slangs and slander by your date, against you. Your dating partner can also make you financially depend on them and take away your credit cards, debit cards and cash through emotional blackmailing. Don’t give the reins of your life and your heart in the hands of the unworthy. If you are ever come across abusive behavior or an act of violence then immediately break off the relationship.

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