No woman should feel that she does not deserve sex. If a woman cannot appreciate herself then she will not be able to enjoy sex with her partner. During their teens, women have perky breasts, narrow waistline and shapely legs. In their twenties, their bodies become fuller and curvier but they still feel confident in their own skin.
Problem starts once you give birth and cross the delicate boundary of the thirties. Most women go through the experience of rearing a child and breast-feeding within thirty.
This experience may enrich you emotionally but it takes a huge toll on your physique. The unseemly stretch mark and bulging belly are reason enough to feel depressed. Add to saggy breasts and lack of sleep to the list of woes and you become someone who cannot see herself enjoying fornication.
Lack of self-confidence can take a huge toll on a woman’s sex life. They do not find the idea of indulging in sex appealing even with a considerate and willing partner.
Every sexologist knows the importance of self-esteem for a happy and fulfilling sex life. They always advice their woman clients suffering from low libido issues to buckle up and change the negative self image that they have. Your negative body image can be harmful for your conjugal relationship. Many a time men are not bothered with your changed body but they find it difficult to tackle your disinterest in sex.
A woman’s libido is directly linked with her self-image. Instead of continuously thinking about your body in negative or derogatory terms, you should try to change the way your body looks. For this, you can join yoga or dance class, take walks and become more careful about your appearance. Looking good will make you feel good about yourself.
When a woman feels confident and happy about her body she is more willing to fornicate and experiment in bed. Even if you cannot undo the post pregnancy stretch marks or reduce as much weight as you should, try and stop being self conscious in bed. Remember that skills also matter when it comes to enjoying a good sex life.
Summary:
Sex is important for keeping a relationship stable. Women with a lack of self-esteem do not like having sex frequently. Their negative self-image damages their long-term healthy relationships.