Women may be obsessed with sex though they don’t have the best reputation for wanting sex. Culturally, women are conditioned into thinking that initiating and taking charge during sex is something that only men should do. This kind of thinking often leads women into making a lot of mistakes sex-wise. Here are the top sex mistakes that most women make.
1. Not initiating sex
An obsolete cultural stereotype still has women believing that only promiscuous women initiate sex. However, failure to initiate sex is the biggest mistake that women make. Not only it robs them of their chance to have sex when they are ready for it, but also makes men feel like they are always initiating and that the women simply aren’t interested in them.
2. Obsessing about what you look like during sex
Worrying about one’s looks is a great deterrent that can ruin the chances of women of achieving orgasm during sex. This thinking probably stems from the need to always look good and presentable in front of a man and the fear that a face with a ruined makeup or an unflattering angle of viewing for the body will make the men like them less. However, the fact remains that most men simply don’t care about all these things as they are busy enjoying the sensations. Sadly, this fear prevents women from trying more positions or charging of the love making process, which ruins sex for both partners over time.
3. Believing that men take sex casually
An old-fashioned myth has women believing that sex is casual for men. However, what women often fail to accept is that sex is a chance for men to feel emotionally close to women as they aren’t too keen on being emotionally open with their partners otherwise!
4. Thinking that men are always up for sex
Men may not have “that time of the month” but they also suffer from hormonal fluctuations that make them not crave sex less at certain times. Poor diet and lifestyle stresses also hamper a man’s libido. However, since women expect men to always initiate sex, they end up believing that they are up for sex any time. Women should really take more notice of the times that they initiated sex in a relationship. This realization will help them get a better idea of their partner’s sexual craving.
5. Not guiding your partner
Most women believe that men by default should know everything about sex, which further includes everything that women want. This is a preposterous presumption even for the most experienced of men. The mistake that women make with their partners more often than not is expect them to read their minds and “get” what they want, instead of telling their male counterparts.
6. Getting upset when a partner suggests something new
Every time a man suggests something new to try in bed, women automatically assume that the sex has gone stale. This is the biggest mistake that women make and one, which leads to the ruin of many a good relationships ultimately.
