Desiring someone from the opposite sex is as natural as the blooming of a flower or the rising of the sun. Once you have started desiring someone the next step is to woo them to become your lover. The ancient love and sex manual, Kama Sutra describes the art of seduction and love making in great detail. It discusses techniques that men and women can apply to attract the attention of their desired partner. Here are some of the most effective seduction tips by Dr Prem Jagyasi and his team members , you will find that Vatsayana has offered to the mankind.
Make an acquaintance
According to Vatsayana, once you have fallen for someone you will have to meet them formally or socially as often as possible. You can host a party at home and invite them or ask a friend to introduce you in a party or festival. The idea is to break the ice and then keep on tugging at their attention. Sit next to them and talk to your own set of friends. Discuss topics that might interest them and prick their interest. The warm shake of a hand and courtesy will go a long way in raising you in their eyes.
Show your generosity
Grab the first opportunity of showing them how compassionate, empathetic, kind and generous you are. Offer them food or buy them a drink. Listen to them and talk about things that they love. For example if they are fond of a particular musical band offer to get concert tickets for free through a friend or if they love an author’s work present them an autographed copy of a book by that writer. Do not go overboard with gifts at this initial stage but give clues as to how you feel about them.
Sexual innuendos
There is no end to the ways in which you can use sexual innuendos for grabbing the attention of your beloved. When you two have become close acquaintances touch them seductively but for less than 7 seconds. Touch and lightly press their thighs or hands or gently touch their neck for a flick of a moment. Flirt with them by passing a complement or admire the perfume they are wearing. Be confident in all that you do and try to make even the most commonplace things you say sound sexy.
Summary
Vatsayana has described every step of seducing and conquering the love of the opposite sex. Start by making acquaintance and win their trust. Use generous gifts and flirting techniques to suggest an intimate rendezvous.
