Sex is a need that every human should have on regular basis. In fact even experts have conducted a variety of tests and studies to confirm that a person should have a sex life. The whole concept of sex is not about banging or letting out. It is about getting to your partner and yourself in many ways. The different forms of sex create more excitement and fun. While getting intimate, trying new positions and styles of sex can enhance your sex life. Out of the different ways of having sex, people are still under contemplation about the pleasures associated with anal sex.
The biggest question that surrounds anal sex is – Does it really give the pleasure a person is looking for?
Well, to answer this question, the first thing that we have to get down to is a few basic facts about anal sex. In a way you can say, we have to get to know the myths and truths behind this form of sex. What you are going to read below is purely based on what I have experienced and how I learnt it.
Before getting into that zone, let us get to know a little bit about the anal region. In comparison to the vaginal region, the anal region is more sensitive as the walls of the anus are thinner than that of the vagina. This is why, when many people indulge into anal sex, they undergo a lot of pain.
Proper anal sex stimulation is a must
What a lot of people do not realize is that before even indulging into this form of sex, you have to actually stimulate the region properly so that it does not hurt during penetration. In order to do so, you do have different kinds of anal play using sex toys like dildos or anal rings or the fingers. Even lubricants are useful to help you get the best experience of anal sex.
When it is not done correctly, anal sex can actually turn out to be one of the worst sexual experience a person may every have. Even experts who have conducted a variety of studies on this topic have expressed that this form of sex is actually as pleasurable as vaginal sex.
The anal is close to the rectum – this gives you more sexual pleasure
In order to enjoy anal sex the first question that will come in your mind is how to stimulate the anal region. Well, a person has to take it as slow as possible so that not too much of friction happens during penetration. After the region is properly stimulated, it can trigger the same satisfaction as that of vaginal sex.
We all are aware that studies have revealed that rectum stimulation is one of the best ways to enjoy sex. The anal region is very close to the rectum which means that getting into the rectum zone is easier. When the penetration is as deep inside that it reaches the rectum zone, it gives a person a better, energetic and satisfying sexual experience.
So how do we stimulate this region during foreplay?
As mentioned earlier, in order to enjoy anal sex proper anal sex stimulation is needed. For the stimulation, you can start it during the foreplay itself. Massaging the thighs and butts are the key to anal stimulation. The butt’s cheeks have pressure points that can help in stimulating the anal region properly.
During penetration, you would need to work your way towards the sphincter muscles AKA the anal ring. When you talk about the anal canal, the anal ring is the key to get in. You have to make sure that the sphincter muscles are relaxed.
Verbal guidance plays a vital role while indulging into anal sex. It is important for your partner to know what you are going through. The intense tension surrounding the area can easily be transformed into a pleasurable one when you partner knows what is going on. When it comes to intimacy, the chemistry that you and your partner share is very important. Every small detail that you speak about will only help your partner to understand what is going on. For people who want to know how to stimulate the anal region, the guidance given by the partner will help them.