Kamasutra is definitely the treasure trove of ideas when it comes to sex. Sexual intercourse can become boring if a couple practices the same tried and tested methods all the time. Kamasutra preaches the necessity of experimenting with different sexual postures. Oral sex is great way of giving and deriving satisfaction. Kamasutra describes several oral sex positions for men and women, which can totally change the bedroom life of couples. Vatsyayana was a wise man who knew the social-sexual scenario very well. He candidly explains that the harems of kings are not protected well and there is a high chance of determined men impregnating the women living in harems. This may lead to some catastrophic consequences and bring anarchy. He analyzed oral sex practiced by young men and queens in great details.

Vatsyayana says that a queen loved the kalila position of oral sex. Maidservants and slaves generally practiced this form for her. He has also described each and every step of oral sex for guiding the novice lovers. At the beginning the woman forms a ‘O’ with her lips to touch the head of the penis gently and the man has to hold her head firmly to move it in tiny circles. This way the penis would get the stimulation it requires for staying erected. In the next step, the woman sucks the sides of the shaft gently in a swift motion. After that, she holds the penis more firmly and lays kisses on the penis head and starts sucking and tickling it with lips and tongue. In the next phase the woman takes in the head of the penis in her mouth and starts moving her head in a to and fro motion to give pleasure to her man.

Vatsyayana has also prescribed some kinky oral sex positions through which men can pleasure their wives. In the Faceplant position, the man has to lie on his back while his lover kneels on his face for getting some quick tongue love. In this position, the woman gets to determine the angle and pace. Another loved oral sex position that gives the lady all the power is called rein-him-in. In this position, the woman lies on her back and the man goes down on her. She has to make a loop with his tie or a scarf and then holds his head inside the loop. She can then move his head right or left while he gives oral.

Summary

Kamasutra emphasizes the importance of both giving and receiving sexual pleasure. Reciprocal sex not just offers physical contentment but also helps in deriving mental satisfaction.