My First Night. 05-08-09
Here I am writing some thing especially for you, not to titillate you but it will tell you some thing about our middle class family in India .We may be from the land of Kama sutra. Even after 60 years of freedom we (average) Indians are sexually suppressed. Sex is still taboo in Indian middle class family.
We have Khjuraho temple in Orissa, which was built about 400 years ago. Most of the foreigners who come to India visit Khjuraho temple. There you will find sex scenes. (Exotic stone carvings) in different act of sex like fellatio, cunnilingus, Anal, orgies and even animal sex! As if you see in present DVD pornographic movies, .does that means our ancestors enjoyed unnatural sex in those days. I am not sure.
I got married very late in my life. For Indian standard ideal age for a man to get married is around 28 years. When I got married, I was 42 and my wife was 36. Even though I am from Kerala, we had settled down here in Chennai city, Tamil Nadu (south India) for the past 34 years.
My wife is from Kerala. I got married at the most famous temple in India, at Guruvayur. After the marriage as per our customs, we both were asked to pray at the temple. I am an atheist .you know what I prayed for the first time in my life? “O” God! There should never be any fight between us “! Within seven years of time (seven years itch), we had developed irreconcilable difference. To find out why our married life went down the drain you need to read my life story THE LIFE OF A LITTLE PRINCESS (life /story).
After the marriage and reception, we returned to Chennai by train. It was packed. We went on talking (discovering each other) until we fell asleep. There goes my first night down the drain… I mean noting happened not even physical contact. Even in our small rented house, there was no privacy.
On the second night after the dinner at around 10.pm, my wife came to my room with a glass of milk in Indian style (As per our customs). After drinking milk, .I asked her to sit next me on the bed. Guess what were her first spoken words? She asked me a simple question.” Have you ever had physical contact (sex) with any other woman “? I thought she was waiting for a chance to ask me this question because at the time of marriage engagement she did not dare to ask me this question. If you wife had asked you same question how would you react to it? I am an Aquarian. Stupid and brutally honest .I just said “yes!”. All hell broke loose …she went on crying…. In between sobs and weeping, she managed to say, “I preserved my virginity for my man”. (Till the age of 36!) And you are not a virgin man “! Sob …weep…no amount of cajoling her helped my pathetic ‘situation’. I told her it was not planned. Once in a blue moon, it just happened. Then I was just a seventeen years old boy. It was a convenient lie .I made love with that same girl for more seven times! Read sensation of deflowering (in my blog)… “An out of body experience” t. you know the truth. Woman loves white lies, hypocrisy and diplomacy no wonder a broken heart is always carried by a woman!