Most couples tend to be stuck in a rut sex wise after they have been together. This could make sex feel like a chore and take the fizz out of your sex life very soon. However, keeping the magic alive in your relationship doesn’t have to be so tedious as you can easily jazz up your sex life by adding a little kinkiness to your regular routines.
Try role-play
Role-playing is a great way to air your secret fantasies. Whether you have always had a thing for doctors, cops, nurses, French maids, college professors or even bosses, some role playing with costumes and a kinky story line could also help you play out your fantasies in an honest way with your partner. If you are clueless about how the play is supposed to go, you can always rent an adult DVD and use their moves.
Sex games
Even if you never imagined that sex could ever get boring, you’d find that once you’ve been with the same person long enough, your intimate life begins to stagnate somewhat. The key to reenergizing your sex life is to keep things playful in the bedroom as you can’t always invent new moves and force your partner to be up for trying new things. A great way to take the pressure off yourselves and improve your mutual sexual experiences is to play sex games. Think trading cards with kinky commands, truth or dare or even something like a kinky treasure hunt.
Use food
Eating food off each other’s bodies is not a fresh move by any stretch of the imagination, though it can easily boost the kink factor depending on what foods you use and what you do with i!
Striptease
Dressing up in sexy lingerie and slowly stripping off to sexy music to seduce your partner is definitely kinky and can infuse your sex life with renewed passion and vigor for sure.
Videotape your sex sessions
The reason why porn turns people on is because it portrays what is otherwise deemed something to be kept hidden and private. The taboo around the act itself makes videotaping sex sessions so darn kinky. You can choose to simply shoot parts of your sex sessions with your mobile phone or up the sexual ante and turn it into a proper production with a story line and a video camera!
Sex toys
Most men and women feel threatened by sex toys as they feel that these tools dilute the value of the bond between two people. However, if you know how to use them and have an active imagination, sex toys could be the best thing that could ever happen to your sex life; and these may even help you get your groove back.
