All of us know that guys love having sex. The meaning of sex is completely different to them. Since they have been, and still are the dominating lot, they always want to assert their rights on their woman, whether she likes it or not. However, it is very important that the desire for sex comes from both sides equally. Men sometimes forget that, there may be problems with the opposite side. Thus, they end up doing things that might cause their sex lives to be ruined. Here are five things about men that ultimately ruin their sex lives:
Pressurizing her to have sex
Though it is not really accepted, we see men pressurizing their partners to have sex with them whether they like it or not. Pressing your woman for continuous sex not only hampers the sex life, but also develops a fear among woman for her partner. Women tend to become repulsive with the continuous force.
Do not do something disgusting
Try to wear a perfume which your partner likes. Don’t wear something which you like. You might end up being scorned by your partner for the weird smell. The most important thing is keeping yourself clean. Have a soothing gel bath after coming home from the stressful work. Make sure that you change your socks every day and brush your teeth properly before having sex. You should also keep your genitals clean. Don’t just pee and come out, doing nothing. Sucking a smelly penis is simply disgusting, and that ruins the total feeling of sex.
Mind your attitude
Sometimes a guy’s attitude is the way to his downfall. Maybe a day or two of moody temperament would not harm you. But the problem arises when you carry on with this temperament for days after days. Your partner may be sitting for you the whole day, planning to talk on things not discussed for long or for some sweet and sexy lovey-dovey talks. Your mood can change the whole notion of sex altogether.
Do not imagine your partner to be a porn star
Your partner is just a normal human being who loves to have sex with you. Dreaming her to be your favourite porn star might initiate all the problems. You just can’t expect her to open all her clothes and act as if she is a porn star. You have to get her into the act slowly and gradually. Doing some foreplay might help. Give her some gift and make the ambience romantic. Gently fondle her and caress her, and whisper words of love into her ear. Fondle her in the precious parts, and move your mouth to her nipple and vagina. You will gradually find her opening up. Trying to force her into direct sex will disturb the mood, which you have longed for whole day.
Do not bring office to your home
Office is office, and home is home. Do not bring your official fights, tensions and work to your home. Your partner may be longing for you the whole day, to snuggle up with you. Your official mood will definitely help to ruin the night in bed.
These trivial but serious things are ones that initiate the beginning failure in maintaining a healthy sex life.