Once in a while you can make elaborate settings and have spicy blindfold sex, but it is not possible to make such arrangements every day. Regular sex can become boring after a certain period of time.
Couples also complain that same sex poses every day does not excite them after a stretch of time. If boredom sets in then saving your relationship can become more difficult. Many times partners start looking for sexual enjoyment out of their relationship. A good way to make things turn around is learning how you can spice up daily sex. Expert partners along with Dr Prem Jagyasi suggests some useful tips to follow.
Find your partner’s trigger zones
There are several erogenous zones in your and your partner’s body. The most sensitive erogenous zones may vary from one person to another. You should find out all the erogenous zones in your partner’s body and utilize this knowledge during foreplay. These trigger zones can arouse your partner beyond measure and make sex more interesting.
If you don’t want to change the sexual poses you are most comfortable in then change your foreplay technique. Feather, leather, food and aromatic candles can spice up your bedroom life and add more spontaneity.
Choose a good lubricant
Different couples have different comfort levels and needs. They should choose lubricants accordingly. Water based lubricants and silicone based lubricants are easy to clean and does not create a mess.
Silicone lubricants are lightweight and they will enhance your sexual experience. You can use oil based lubricants too but for anal sex. Oil based lubricants are thicker and they make anal penetration less painful. Organic lubricants are safer to use as there will be almost no etching or other side effects.
Women should take control every once in a while and get on top of their men. When a woman is on top she gets to take control of the pace and may prolong the period of intercourse. It also helps them in finding their G-spot and enjoying sex more at their ease. The guys get to behold their lovers in all their glory and also rest their backs.
If your man is too tired or you are not feeling like a full session then try oral sex. Oral sex is pleasurable yet does not require too much physical effort. Always remember it is the connection and bonding that matters more than reaching the climax.
Regular sex can be spiced up with a little effort. Try to enhance your foreplay skills and go for role reversal. Wear sexy lingerie to bed and offer oral stimulation to your partner for a change.