It’s not only women who face sexual problems, but men also suffer the same. Sometimes the husband is not interested in sexual intercourse with his wife. In many cases, the wife’s loyalty has been challenged. This issue creates dangerous hindrance in the married life of the couple. The husband needs to care for his wife to get physically intimate. There are problems such as bad childhood experience, sexual addiction, personal issues, sexual inexperience or past influences that affects the sexual life of a man. The sexual pleasure for men and women are quite different. Therefore, wife must pay heed to the needs of her husband so that he is fully satisfied with her.
Men who have been raised without love in their early childhood days usually resist sexual intimacy. Men also need emotional support, closeness and warmth of his wife. These men, who had received no love in childhood, have sexual desire but no feelings. The sexual process is all about sharing feelings for both, men and women. The pleasure achieved by men is also enjoyed by women. But a person with no feeling cannot understand this feeling and thus prevents himself from having any sexual relationship. This can be treated with the help of a therapist.
Sometimes when a man is addicted to sex, he relieves himself by using pornography or other forms of sexual preoccupation. Later, the man feels guilty of his secret desire. Consequently, he is unable to provide sexual pleasure to his wife. Even if the wife approaches, he will get irritated by his own conscience creating hindrance in the marriage.
Sometimes men avoid sex because of personal issues such as wife’s bad breath or repugnance to vaginal secretions. In this case, the husband feels uneasy to explain to his wife as he does not want to hurt her.
A man without sexual experience feels sexually inept. However, an inexperience man responds more quickly and positively to sexual education and sexual retaining. If the wife is knowledgeable, she should help her husband otherwise both should opt for reading sexual books or watching programs to enhance their sexual life.
If a man is brought up in a dominated family, where his mother is in command and does not appreciate men, he might have received rigid and inflexible anti-sexual teaching as boy. Therefore, a person with aversion towards sex creates hindrance in sexual life. His marriage will be affected due to deeper emotional sexual blocks created by destructive influence. In this case, the wife should support her husband emotionally and take him to a counselor who will help him overcome his aversions.
Overwork done by a man usually kills his sexual desire. If a man puts all his energy in his work, he will have no energy left for his wife to fulfill her desires. This is one of the major issues where man loses interest in sex. One needs to have enough time for his wife and fulfill her requirements as well his own in order to have a healthy and successful married life.
