“Man is born free, but everywhere is in chains”, these lines of Jean-Jacques Rousseau seems quite apt, in the modern society. Since childhood, the marathon begins for winning and achieving and without relenting moves on until we take course of our final journey.
Not to mention sleep, even the idea of sexual pleasure is fast becoming a far-fetched dream. Of course! There is no fault of us, so busy we remain through the day, by 10:00 O’clock, all we can do is just plump down on bed like a gunny bag of salt! Isn’t it? However, there is none denying that sex works like a cementing element in our relation with our life partner, but by and large most of us are forgetting its importance and the results are out there in various forms – misunderstanding, daily nagging, frustration, cheating, divorce and so on.
Therefore, there is no way we can substitute its importance with anything else. Hence, we can adopt few methods to keep it as an integral part of our life:
Intimate time – Today we all are exposed to the world, hence, life partners do have very lesser time, meant for the two only. Hence, the time that’s handy should be used in the best possible way, so as to wash away the frustration of whole day.
Have a feeling touch – It never means that if you two are alone – sex is indispensable. A touch full of feeling is more than a sensitizing sex.
Go out on a date – Dating is just for bachelors. If you think this, you are making a blunder. Go out with your partner and explore the contours of your unexplored romanticism. If not on each weekend, you should do it at least once in a month for sure.
Keep yourself spruced up – Keep yourself spruced up, especially when coming across each other, as neatness and beautification is the first and the foremost thing to keep the flame of love kindled.
Get Romantic – The hidden treasure of sexual happiness lies in the way you romanticize it and there is none denying that great sex isn’t only about what you do in the bedroom. You have to show one another that there is something more to your relationship than sex. Romantic gestures, even corny candlelight dinners or unexpected red roses, can do the trick.
Above all, the pleasure of anything, be it sex of anything else, lies in its variety and change in the way you take it. Therefore, make sure you put some spice of variety into it, and the variety your relation requires is known best to nobody else but to you and only YOU!